The Difference Between Speech and Language: A Guide

Speech is the physical act of making sounds. Language is the words we use and how we use them to understand and communicate ideas. Speech includes articulation (how we make sounds), voice (how we use our vocal folds), and fluency (the rhythm and flow of talking). Language includes vocabulary, grammar, comprehension, and how we use language with others. A child can have difficulty with speech, language, or both. Understanding the difference can help parents recognize what kind of support their child may need.

Key takeaways

  • Speech is the physical act of producing sounds. Language is the system we use to understand and communicate meaning.

  • Speech has three main areas: articulation, voice, and fluency. Language has five areas: phonology, morphology, syntax, semantics, and pragmatics.

  • A child can have a speech disorder, such as an articulation disorder or stutter, with typical language skills. Or a child can have a language disorder, such as difficulty learning words, with typical speech.

  • Speech therapists are trained to evaluate and treat both speech and language concerns.

  • If your child isn't meeting speech or language milestones, an evaluation can help you understand what support they may need.

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Speech vs. language: A side-by-side comparison

The table below highlights six key differences between speech and language, including what they involve, what challenges can look like, and how they’re evaluated and treated.

The differences between speech and language and what delays look like

Understanding the difference between speech and language

The easiest way to think about the difference is that speech is how we say something, while language is what we understand and communicate.

What is speech?

Speech refers to how we say sounds and words. Speech includes three main areas:

  • Articulation: How we make speech sounds using our mouth, lips, and tongue

  • Voice: How we use our vocal folds and breath to make sounds

  • Fluency: The rhythm and smoothness of how we speak

A child can have problems in one area, such as articulation, while the other two areas are developing typically.

What is language?

Language refers to the words we use and how we use them to share our thoughts, wants, and needs. Language includes:

  • Understanding what words mean

  • Knowing how to put words together into sentences

  • Knowing how to talk with other people in a variety of situations

Language has two directions: receptive language (what a child understands) and expressive language (what a child communicates). For example, a toddler who follows two-step directions but says only a few words may have stronger receptive language skills than expressive language skills. 

Speech therapists also look at five areas of language:

  • Phonology: How sounds are organized in words

  • Morphology: Word parts, such as plurals and past-tense endings

  • Syntax: How words are put together in sentences

  • Semantics: What words and sentences mean

  • Pragmatics: How we use language to communicate with others

The difference between receptive and expressive language

Examples of speech disorders vs. language disorders

It’s common for parents to wonder whether their child’s issue is related to speech or language. The examples below can help show the difference. Keep in mind that some children have both a speech disorder and a language disorder.

Speech disorders: The physical act of talking

  • Articulation disorder — Difficulty making specific speech sounds. For example, a child may have trouble with sounds like /s/ and /z/ (saying “thun” instead of “sun”). Or they may use /w/ instead of /r/ beyond the expected age (saying “twuck” instead of “truck”).

  • Phonological disorder — Difficulty using and organizing speech sounds. A child may use patterns such as leaving off the final sound in a word, saying “ca” instead of “cat.”

  • Childhood apraxia of speech (CAS) — A motor-planning disorder that makes it hard for the brain to plan and coordinate the movements needed for speech.

  • Stuttering (fluency disorder) — Interruptions in the flow of speech, such as repeating sounds or words, stretching out sounds, or getting stuck on a word.

  • Voice disorder — A change in voice quality, pitch, or loudness, such as ongoing hoarseness or breathiness. Voice changes can have a range of causes.

Language disorders: The system and meaning of communicating

Understanding speech and language milestones

Every child develops at their own pace. However, there are speech and language milestones that children typically reach within certain age ranges. These milestones can give parents a general idea of what to expect and when it may be helpful to seek support.

“For example, by age 1, a child may put sounds together to say words like ‘mama’ or ‘up.’ By age 3, children typically use a growing range of speech sounds in words, such as /b/, /n/, /t/, /w/, /g/, /f/, and /h/,” explains Abby Barnes, M.S., CCC-SLP, a speech therapist at Expressable.

Another important part of speech development is speech intelligibility, or how much of a child’s speech other people can understand. As children get older, their speech should become easier for others to understand. A commonly used guideline from Hustad et al. (2021) is:

  • Age 4: At least 50% intelligible to an unfamiliar listener, or someone who doesn’t know the child well

  • Age 5: At least 75% intelligible to an unfamiliar listener

  • Age 6: Speech should continue becoming clearer as children develop more mature speech sounds

  • Age 7 and older: About 90% intelligible to an unfamiliar listener

“These numbers are guidelines, not strict cutoffs,” Barnes reassures parents. Speech clarity can vary depending on the child, the listener, and the situation. “Still, if a 4-year-old is understood less than half the time by people outside the family, it may be a good idea to schedule a speech evaluation, even if their language skills seem to be developing as expected.”

Language development follows its own set of milestones. For example, between 12 and 18 months, children typically respond to their name, follow simple directions, and begin using new words on their own. Around age 2, toddlers use a growing number of words and begin putting two words together into simple phrases, such as “more milk” or “want cookie.”

What is a speech delay?

A speech delay is when a child develops speech sounds in the expected order but at a slower rate. A child with a speech delay may have trouble reaching speech milestones or being understood clearly for their age. Learn more about what to do if your child is not meeting speech milestones in our guide to speech delay.

What is a language delay?

Language skills develop in a typical order, with certain skills emerging at different ages. A language delay is when a child develops these skills in the expected order but at a slower rate.

A language delay can affect receptive language (understanding what others say), expressive language (using words and sentences), or both. Signs may include:

  • A 2-year-old who has fewer than 50 words or is not yet putting two words together

  • A preschooler who has trouble following two-step directions, like “Take off your shoes and bring your backpack to the kitchen.”

  • A school-age child who struggles to answer open-ended questions or retell a story in order.

How can you tell if it's a speech delay or a language delay?

Speech and language delays can look different, although some children have both.

“A child with a speech delay may know what they want to say and use words and phrases to communicate, but their speech may be hard to understand because they have trouble making certain sounds,” Barnes says.

A child with a language delay may have more difficulty understanding or using words and sentences. “They may use fewer words than expected for their age, or they may have trouble putting words together, following directions, answering questions, or expressing their thoughts,” Barnes says.

As a general guide, think about whether the main challenge is how your child says something or how they understand and use language. However, it can be hard to tell the difference on your own. A speech therapist can evaluate your child's communication skills and determine whether they need support with speech, language, or both.

What should I do if I think my child has a delay?

If you’re concerned about your child’s speech or language development, you don’t have to wait and see if they catch up on their own. Talk with your child’s pediatrician, or contact a speech therapist for an evaluation.

Speech therapy is individualized to each child. Your therapist should teach you strategies you can use at home with your child during everyday routines and conversations. Caregiver involvement is an important part of supporting your child’s communication development. Below are some simple strategies you start trying today.

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11 tips to help your child's speech and language at home

Children learn to communicate through everyday interactions with the people around them. Simple moments like playing, eating, getting dressed, and reading together are all chances to build speech and language skills. Try these techniques during activities you already do together.

1 Start talking with your baby from the beginning

Even newborns benefit from hearing your voice. Talk, sing, and respond to your baby throughout the day.

2 Respond to your baby's coos and babbles

When your baby makes a sound, respond as if you're having a conversation. This teaches them that communication is a back-and-forth interaction.

3 Play simple games together

Games like peek-a-boo and pat-a-cake are fun ways to practice taking turns and communicating.

4 Talk about what you're doing

Narrate everyday activities using simple language. For instance, as you prepare a snack, you can say, “I'm putting your yogurt in the bowl.”

5 Read books together

You don't have to read every word on the page. If your child loses interest in the story, talk about the pictures, point out what you see, or let your child turn the pages.

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6 Sing songs and nursery rhymes

Songs give children chances to hear new words, practice sounds, and join in with familiar phrases.

7 Expand on what your child says

Build on your child's words without asking them to repeat you. If they say, “Bluey,” you might say, “Yes! Bluey is here!”

8 Talk about what your child sees, does, and feels

Put words to everyday experiences. You might say, “You're hungry,” “The train is fast,” or “You look excited!”

9 Give your child time to respond

After you say something or ask a question, pause and give your child time to respond. Try not to fill the silence right away.

10 Offer choices

Give your child chances to communicate by offering two choices. For example, ask, “Do you want milk or water?” Then wait for their response, whether it’s pointing or trying to say the word.

11 Model language instead of correcting mistakes

If your child makes a grammar mistake, repeat their idea using the correct form. If they say, “He run fast,” you can respond, “Yes, he runs fast!”

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